Difference between Daughter and Daughter in law

Hello frnds ..........

A long time since i came here ... this time an interesting topic with regard to the treatment given to the daughter in laws by the mother in laws ......

Mother of a son before his marriage - " a person who did things for her son changed herself in many ways for him .. loved him unconditionally "

Mother of a son after his marriage - "a person who does things coz she dont want her son to fall for his wife "

I dont understand why there is such a difference in the attitude .. a mother remains the same to her daughter even after the marriage ... but when it comes to daughter in law though they say "she is like a daughter to me" they dont mean it...

It really hurts when a person who is like a mother to u and they show such a huge difference between daughter and daughter in law...

The part played in by the sons of such mothers influences the daughters in law to a gr8 extent....

Some remains quiet though they know that there is some problem. some tend to shout to stop the problem .. some tend to support their mothers nd advice their wife ... very very few ppl support their wife wen such issues come up...

I dont say that all mothers are like this though we say we have developed a lot ... not in this issue of attitude problem between a daughter in law and mother in law...

My sincere appeal to all mothers out there i know u all love ur sons .. but after marriage the daughter in law is sharing the love that u have got from ur son for all these years ... she is not replacing you but just trying to be apart of Ur son ..you need not see her as a daughter but please dont forget to consider her to be a fellow women ...

All mothers in law dont forget that you were also a daughter in law at one part of time .....