Saturday, May 21, 2011

SIX types of LOVE

Hello friends ,,,,

LOVE is there everywhere ..... we all love .. no one can deny the fact ..

The type of Love which we show makes a difference.... Love is also classified...

Eros is romantic, passionate, love—what Tennov labeled limerence. In this type of relationship, love is life's most important thing. Lee said a search for physical beauty or an ideal type also typifies this type of love.

Ludus is a game-playing or uncommitted love. Lying is part of the game. A person who pursues ludic love may have many conquests but remains uncommitted.

Storge (STORE-gay) is a slow developing, friendship-based loved. People with this type of relationship like to participate in activities together. Often storge results in a long-term relationship in which sex might not be very intense or passionate.

Pragma is a pragmatic, practical, mutually beneficial relationship. It may be somewhat unromantic. A person who leans toward this type of relationship may look for a partner at work or where the person is spending time. Sex is likely to be seen as a technical matter needed for producing children, if they are desired.

Mania is an obsessive or possessive love, jealous and extreme. A person in love this way is likely to do something crazy or silly, such as stalking. The movie Fatal Attraction was about this type.

Agape (a-GOP-aye) is a gentle, caring, giving type of love, brotherly love, not concerned with the self. It is relatively rare. Mother Theresa showed this kind of love for impoverished people.

So now we know what love we show to people around us ......

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Difference between Daughter and Daughter in law

Hello frnds ..........

A long time since i came here ... this time an interesting topic with regard to the treatment given to the daughter in laws by the mother in laws ......

Mother of a son before his marriage - " a person who did things for her son changed herself in many ways for him .. loved him unconditionally "

Mother of a son after his marriage - "a person who does things coz she dont want her son to fall for his wife "

I dont understand why there is such a difference in the attitude .. a mother remains the same to her daughter even after the marriage ... but when it comes to daughter in law though they say "she is like a daughter to me" they dont mean it...

It really hurts when a person who is like a mother to u and they show such a huge difference between daughter and daughter in law...

The part played in by the sons of such mothers influences the daughters in law to a gr8 extent....

Some remains quiet though they know that there is some problem. some tend to shout to stop the problem .. some tend to support their mothers nd advice their wife ... very very few ppl support their wife wen such issues come up...

I dont say that all mothers are like this though we say we have developed a lot ... not in this issue of attitude problem between a daughter in law and mother in law...

My sincere appeal to all mothers out there i know u all love ur sons .. but after marriage the daughter in law is sharing the love that u have got from ur son for all these years ... she is not replacing you but just trying to be apart of Ur son ..you need not see her as a daughter but please dont forget to consider her to be a fellow women ...

All mothers in law dont forget that you were also a daughter in law at one part of time .....