ENLIGHTENED LIVING cont.....

Hello friends...

Sorry folks since i was busy with some personals i was not able to write out my mind in here ...

we have seen the present scenario of human psychology.. we usually hear people saying 'why is that my life is full of misery'.... or 'iam the only person who undergoes so much misery in life'.. we tend to blame others for our misery in life,, is this right???

we are solely responsible for all our miseries in life . when we take the responsibility we tend to stop blaming others for our miseries and that would make a drastic change in life.

We all go through our misery with a hope that it will end soon. first we should give up thinking about the end of misery, instead we should start thinking that it has already ended. By doing so , we tend to forget about the misery and enjoy the present.

It sounds very simple right?? but is it simple to follow?

our life has become too mechanical. we keep worrying about present miseries and this has become a habit of ours. We have been conditioned to wait for happiness to come .

We should unlearn what we have learnt and learn new ways of thinking and doing.

We always worry about the regrets and guilt feelings in our life. instead of worryin we can learn from mistakes and give up the feelings of being guilty. i hope this wud surely make us happy.

we all are conditioned with certain thoughts and attitudes. When some new thoughts to which we are not conditioned comes to us we tend to feel uncomfortable.
We all are the prisoners of our own conditioning,because of our conditioning we feel the misery.

SO HOW TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE??

SIMPLE. just be happy. enjoy the present. we should see the good in others. rejoice in other's success . we should not consider ourself as a failure in terms of others success. everyone is unique.

we should keep our mind calm . say "NO" to negative thoughts . this is the most simple way for being happy .

So friends don't feel so much for ur miseries i life. just sit back , enjoy the present. Life has been so good to us. so feel it and be grateful to the beautiful gift of GOD.- "OUR LIFE"...

Today's LOVE ......

"I LOVE YOU " this has become the most commonly used words in today's scenario ...

In ancient times love was very secret . it was kept within the hearts of couples . but today people have guts to propose even in front of parents .

Where are we going in the case of LOVE . LOVE should be unconditional without any expectations attitudes nd ego's ...

In today's scenario love has different meaning altogether . it is full of egos .no one is ready to leave their egos nd save their relationship...
Blaming is another factor which spoils a relationship to the core .. blaming each other for a problem never solves it ..
Another thing that spoils love is expectations .. a gal is never clear abt wat she expects from her husband and keep saying 'you are not up to my expectations ' this again leave the guy confused and spoils the relationship .....

will continue ......

ENLIGHTENED LIVING -1

Hello friends ...

Instead of making psychology in notes form i thought i wud mingle our daily experiences with psychology and find out reason for our actions ...

ENLIGHTENED LIVING this happens wen one is completely aware of what he does and why he does ..

Life is filled with surprises and each surprise is the gift from the unknown .We can't experience a surprise as a gift as our minds are filled with preconceived notion of what we shud receive and what we should not .

Why is that we expect a lot from life???? Life is an unexpected thing .Anything may happen any time . Sometimes it brings us joy ,sometimes sorrow ..

Can student who dint prepare well for the exam, can he expect distinction ??? same way life is if we are not giving our best then we wont get the best out of it .

I have seen people afraid to take risky decisions in life ॥ i pity them । i always feel we shud be bold enough to take risks in our life . When we are aware of the consequences y shud we stop ourself? Life is only once so lets make the best use of it .. at the end of life we shud not feel that we have wasted it ...

I always wonder why is that i feel bored most of the time when i have so much to do .. we all have this kinda feeling sometime .. this happens because we have taken life for granted and we are indifferent to the mysteries of life. so we tend to give least importance to small things that happen in life .

Do we have time to see sun rising so gracefully ? Do we have time to listen to the chirping of birds ?These may sound odd but if we give it a time to think this would do miracles in our life..

will continue enlightened living ...........

IMPORTANCE OF PSYCHOLOGY

Psychology is a subject that deals with human behavior ..This is like an ocean where we come to know the various aspects of our behavior and the reason behind it ..

Have you ever wondered why we behave in different ways to a same situation .? every individual is unique .No one can be the same like the other . So we think differently for different situations .

We human beings are the most beautiful creation of god . various aspects of human life is under the big umbrella called PSYCHOLOGY .
A person's personality,intelligence,emotions,attitude,thoughts,behavior,etc... can be understood through psychology .We never give importance to these aspects since we don't have time to think of it .
We should realize how important psychology is to understand ourselves . When we know our self its easy to understand others ...

So friends lets explore the ocean of psychology to understand our self.. enjoy your stay here ...

LIFE OF A STUDENT .... from LKG to College.....

Hi ppl am back ... After joining the college , i got many experiences with my students ....

life of a student .... let them be in watever field be it arts ,science , engineering , medicine ,others ....

their life remains the same ...


wen i was 2 yrs old my parents dint have the option of sending me to pre kg .... so i had lot of time to spend with my parents ...but in today's generation children are sent to pre kg ...the reason given by the parents is " pre kg pona than avanuku matha kozhandhel oda pazhaga theriyum" this is a lame excuse every parent gives for not spending time with their children .....


after pre kg ..... LKG to 12 another hectic life starts ..... they are stuffed with expectations from the LKG.
"avan avalo mark vangaran en unala mudiyala" wat a question is this ??? if ur son ask u "avan appa oru engineer nee en apadi ila" wat will be ur answer for this ......

then with all struggle he passes 10th then the group selection starts ... he is not allowed to take a group he likes "nambha family la docter ila so nee docter ku padi " .......


then he tries to full fil his parents wish ...

this generation students struggle a lot coz of frequent changes in their studies ....

parents should understand their difficulty and one more thing dont compare your child with other.

each and every individual is different your child is talented in some way so find tht nd nurture it in him.....


ipadi irundha neenga expect panamaleye they will excel ..... motivate them bt dont force them ...



i dunno whthr all these r rite jus felt like writing so wrote .....

this is ther in the mind of my students this is an input from them